lesbian does not mean attracted to vagina
lesbian means attracted to women and only women, and thats it.
stop reducing women to their genitals, and stop invalidating trans lesbians and their girlfriends.
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- pansexual women: i'm pansexual
- straight women: what the fuck is that supposed to be? stop trying to be a special snowflake just call yourself bisexual
- bisexual women: i’m bisexual
- straight women: so...you're a lesbian then? like really at the end of the day you like girls so. you're basically a lesbian
- lesbians: i’m a lesbian
- straight women: but...how do you know? what if you fall in love with a man someday? i’m just saying It Could Happen!! never say never!!!!!
- lesbians, bi women and pan women: straight women are so fucking annoying
- straight women: oh my god ???????? whY a re you being HETEROPHOBIC hmmmm ive never been anything but accepting of your lifestyle ??? i hA ve a Gay Friend and i love slash fiction i am your aLLY i cant believe im being discriminated against like this >:( oppression is a double-edged sword!!
Sharpay Evans was a lesbian
what do you mean “was”? she’s still a lesbian
wow you’re right, i guess i’m not used to lesbians being alive at the end of
a movie
Explain?? How??
- weak ass crush on the most conventionally attractive boy in school despite having nothing in common with him.
- obsession with the girl he was dating, thinking she hated her when really she was jealous of him.
- theatre is gay
- she loves drama
- high femme
- never ended up with a boyfriend because she was gay
- best friends with her gay brother
- only sings romantic duets with her gay brother because she’s also gay
- determined to “stick to status quo” due to internalised homophobia
- bop to the Top = she’s telling us she’s a top
lesbian culture is feeling weird about one of your friends when you’re a kid and 5 years later realizing it’s because you had a crush on them
- me: dating is really hard when you're gay
- str8 person: it's ok sweaty finding love is hard for everyone :) :) :)
- me: actually it's a lot harder when there are approximately 3 lesbians in my area but thanks for your input sharon
I just had a straight guy tell me “Gah I love lesbians” and before I could even say anything, he added, “because, ya know, they like the same thing I do and sometimes it’s nice to get advice from a girl instead of guys who think making love is just repeatedly putting your dick in something, ya know?” And I have never been more proud of the human race.
i was very mad and then i wasn’t
if straight girls knew of even half of how much lesbians and bisexual girls hold themselves back and restrain themselves and dilute themselves in order to appear non-threatening and non-predatory to those same straight girls
once we’ve made you aware of our orientation, we barely allow ourselves to look at you and smile at a joke you just told, in case you’d assume we’re into you, just because we smiled at you once
but guys can catcall, make inappropriate comments, talk about girls as trophies, talk about how they ‘become a real man’ only after they’ve had sex the first time, break girls down into body parts, take revealing clothing as an open invite for sexual interest, go on about how good they are in bed after receiving an initial ‘no’ as if their dick is a product that the girl just doesn’t know she wants yet and the guy didn’t sell it on his first try??? and many more things
@ straight girls, please. please. take your homophobic hypocrisy and realise that girls who like girls are not your enemy.
if we flirt with you, because not all of us have amazing gaydar and sometimes we just gotta try, and you’re not into us?
if you just say so, the most likely scenario is that we will sincerely apologise and then move to the other side of the room or in any other way leave you as well alone as we possibly can.
we are not your enemy.
and we don’t like girls just because you’re girls.
you are not body parts.
you are not a trophy.
we don’t call your outfit cute because we want to get between your legs.
you are not new territory that we want to conquer.
you are not an area on a map that we want to mark with an “x” so we can brag about how we’ve been there.
you are not a pussy that we want to defeat.
the predatory lesbian and the hyper-sexualised bisexual is a myth.
we are
not
your
enemy.
Conversely,
Straight boys, FUCKING IMPROVE YOURSELVES
I love when people acknowledge that I’m a lesbian. Like when people say “your future wife” instead of husband or ask me if I have a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend. Or even use the word “partner” alternatively. I’m so used to my sexuality being hidden and ignored and dismissed. A plain and simple comment that references the fact that I like girls in normal conversation makes me feel so happy and safe and seen.
When you see your lesbian lover on the red carpet and forget that Hollywood thinks you’re straight
I’m a lesbian and somehow I manage to walk down the street and not ogle women I find attractive, or cat call or degrade them, or touch them without permission, or interrupt their daily lives, it’s almost as if I’m treating them like human beings despite my attraction to them. What an insane concept.
shocking really